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We invite you to read and watch these personal stories to help you better understand how to get started in making your own end-of-life plan, or how to talk to your loved ones about your wishes for your own end-of-life experience.

Hear from people who have made difficult decisions for loved ones without knowing for sure what they wanted, and from others who feel at peace with the choices they made because they knew what their loved one wanted. Be inspired and use them to help you answer those critical questions—what matters to me most? Who should I ask to make health care decisions for me when I can’t? With whom should I share my plan?

Converation Project Stories

Personal Stories

Understanding Love

Understanding Love

To most people, the image of someone spitting on combat boots would not conjure up an image of what love looks like – but for me, it is a perfect picture of the meaning of the word.

My husband Dave was diagnosed with colon cancer at the age of 43. Our youngest child, Andrew was 12 and Dave was determined to fight. He went through surgery …

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We Did Not Know My Brother’s Wishes

Tanya’s brother loved to make people laugh and smile, but never wanted to talk with his family and partner about the inevitable end to the serious illness he faced. When he could no longer make decisions on his own about his care, Tanya was left to make the decisions without knowing if they were really what her brother wanted. Watch the video to hear from Tanya how that affected …

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